Parenting Book: 17 18 19 Redshirting Education
Based on the forthcoming book "17 18 19: Redshirting Education" by John Chavez
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Retired 20+ year High Educator, 27 years as a Football & Baseball Coach, Currently TV High School Football Commentator. Father of three adult sons, older two have graduated from college, youngest a sophomore in college.
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Parenting Book: 17 18 19 Redshirting Education
Building Strong Learning Foundations: Essential Study Skills for Young Minds
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Have you ever found yourself kind of like wondering how to best help like a young person in your life with learning , you know , like maybe seen them struggling with homework or just felt a bit lost on how to give them the support they really need ? Well , that's exactly what we're diving deep into today .
Speaker 2Getting those study skills solid from the start .
Speaker 1Exactly Building strong study skills right from the beginning . It's huge , and to get into all of this we've got a whole bunch of amazing resources . We're looking at ones that focus on how kids learn best .
Speaker 2Right Like some really insightful stuff .
Speaker 1We've got the National Council of Teachers of Mathematics , NCTM , thinking about math , which
Creating an Effective Learning Environment
Speaker 1is so important . Those early foundations , Exactly . And then we've got the American Educational Research Association , AERA . They offer a lot about those core learning skills kids need . We're also tapping into some parent and teacher guides , getting that practical advice , Plus some classic educational psychology research and even some foundational books like Mathematics for Young Children . Our goal to turn all of this into advice you can actually use to help those study habits really stick .
Speaker 2Yeah , because it's not just about getting through the next test .
Speaker 1Yeah .
Speaker 2It's about setting them up for success in school and in life , really fostering that love of learning .
Speaker 1Okay , so let's get into it . The first thing that jumps out from all this research is how important the learning environment itself is .
Speaker 2It's more important than you might think .
Speaker 1Yeah , like the actual physical space where they study .
Speaker 2Totally Think about it . When you're trying to focus and there's stuff happening all around you , it's tough , right , yeah ? Same for kids . Creating a dedicated study space for them at home makes a huge difference . It should be quiet , organized , free from distractions as much as possible .
Speaker 1So it's like a signal right .
Speaker 2Yeah , Like . Okay , this is where we focus . It actually helps them mentally shift gears too . Makes sense and it's not just about the location , is it ? It's also about having a consistent routine . Right when homework and study time happen at the same time , every day , it becomes part of their routine . They get used to it , like brushing their teeth Exactly . It's not a battle every time , it's just what we do .
Speaker 1Okay , so we've got the environment set up . What about the actual learning ? Something that feels really , really fundamental is reading . Oh for sure , like it unlocks so much for them .
Speaker 2Totally , and the research backs that up . Encouraging daily reading from when they're little has huge benefits . That up encouraging daily reading from when they're little has huge benefits . Making time for it , whether it's bedtime stories , independent reading or even family reading , time where everyone joins in it all adds up .
Speaker 1And I've noticed it's not just about what they read right . It's about giving them a variety of things to read .
Speaker 2Absolutely Exposing them to different types of writing fiction , nonfiction , magazines , anything that's age appropriate and interesting it all helps expand their understanding . They learn to process different types of information .
Speaker 1Now this is where it gets interesting . For me , Just reading the words isn't enough , right ? They need to really think about what they're reading to get the most out of it .
Speaker 2Oh , you hit the nail on the head there . That's what we call active reading .
Speaker 1Oh , okay .
Speaker 2Asking them questions about what they've read Like . Can you summarize the main points ? What do you think might happen next , or even just what are your thoughts on this ? It makes them think critically and helps them remember what they've read .
Speaker 1It's like they're having a conversation with the book .
Speaker 2Yeah , exactly .
Speaker 1So we've talked about the environment and reading , but then there's all the school stuff , right Assignments , projects . That's where organizational skills come in , I guess 100% .
Speaker 2Teaching kids how to be organized early on gives them skills they'll use forever . Really , Things like using a planner or a calendar .
Speaker 1Oh yeah , to keep track of everything .
Speaker 2Exactly To keep track of assignments , due dates , even upcoming events , and they can start thinking about their own steady goals too . It helps them learn to manage their time , which is a skill we could all use more of .
Speaker 1And I imagine when they're faced with a big project , it can feel really overwhelming . What's the best way to approach that ?
Speaker 2Breaking it down .
Developing Strong Reading Foundations
Speaker 2Oh , instead of looking at the whole thing at once , help them divide it into smaller , more manageable steps . That way it's not this big scary thing . It's a series of smaller tasks they can actually handle .
Speaker 1Yeah , that makes it less intimidating .
Speaker 2It really does . And the best part is , each time they finish a step , they feel a sense of accomplishment .
Speaker 1A little win .
Speaker 2Exactly .
Speaker 1Yeah .
Speaker 2And those little wins keep them motivated to keep going . And of course none of this matters if they can't find their stuff Pencils , paper , that sort of thing .
Speaker 1Ah , the classic . Where's my situation , yep ?
Speaker 2Having organized school supplies makes a huge difference . It minimizes frustration and keeps their attention on the learning itself .
Speaker 1Okay , so reading and being organized are super important , but how do we make the learning itself really stick ?
Speaker 2You're talking about active learning .
Speaker 1Active learning okay .
Speaker 2It's about making them an active participant in the learning process . For example , hands-on activities are fantastic , especially for subjects like science and math .
Speaker 1Yeah , I remember doing those science projects as a kid , building a volcano , that sort of thing .
Speaker 2Exactly when kids can actually touch , build and experiment , abstract concepts become real . They're not just words on a page anymore , they get it Exactly . And the NCTM , the National Council of Teachers of Mathematics they really push for that kind of hands-on learning in the early years .
Speaker 1It makes so much sense . What about when they're like in class or reading a textbook
Building Organizational Skills That Stick
Speaker 1?
Speaker 2Note-taking can be really helpful . For older kids it might be jotting down key points or summarizing what they're reading , but even younger kids can draw pictures to represent what they're learning . It helps them process the information .
Speaker 1So it's not just passively absorbing information , it's doing something with it , Right , and you know , to keep them engaged . I think bringing in some fun can really help .
Speaker 2Absolutely Educational games and puzzles are fantastic .
Speaker 1Yeah , they don't even realize they're learning .
Speaker 2Exactly they're having fun and reinforcing what they've learned at the same time .
Speaker 1Now I've got to say I think kids also learn a lot from watching the adults around them .
Speaker 2You're absolutely right . A lot from watching the adults around them . You're absolutely right .
Speaker 1We are their role models , whether we realize it or not , like we can tell them how important learning is , but do we actually show them Exactly ?
Speaker 2Yeah , so model good study habits yourself . Show them that you're excited about learning new things . Share your own experiences with them .
Speaker 1Oh , I like that . Like , hey , I'm learning this new thing too and it's tough , but I'm sticking with it .
Speaker 2Right , or ? I just learned this amazing fact and I want to share it with you . It all makes a difference . Even something simple like having a quiet time at home where everyone focuses on something reading a puzzle , whatever shows them that learning is important to the whole family .
Speaker 1It's like a family value . Yeah , now time . Time is always a challenge , so how can we help kids manage their study time effectively ?
Speaker 2Well . For younger kids , a timer can be a great tool . It helps them focus for set periods of time and then take a break . It builds that understanding of work and rest cycles .
Speaker 1Those little breaks are crucial . They are .
Speaker 2It's like hitting the reset button and , along with the timer , help them set small , specific goals for each study session . Instead of finish all your homework , it could be read one chapter or do five math problems .
Speaker 1Break it down .
Speaker 2Exactly Smaller goals feel more achievable and give them a sense of accomplishment along the way .
Speaker 1So what happens when they hit a wall ? They're working on something and they just can't figure it out .
Speaker 2That's when they need to ask for help , but that can be hard for some kids .
Speaker 1Oh yeah .
Speaker 2So create a positive environment around asking for
Active Learning and Engagement Strategies
Speaker 2help . Let them know it's okay not to know everything . In fact , asking questions is a sign of a good learner .
Speaker 1It shows they're engaged .
Speaker 2Exactly Now , when they do come to you for help , resist the urge to just give them the answer .
Speaker 1I know that one . It's tempting .
Speaker 2It is . But instead of giving them the answer , guide them , ask leading questions , offer suggestions , help them figure it out themselves .
Speaker 1That way , they're actually learning how to solve problems .
Speaker 2Exactly . It's about giving them the tools they need to be independent learners .
Speaker 1I think it also helps when we can connect what they're learning in school to real life .
Speaker 2Oh , absolutely Look for opportunities to do that .
Speaker 1Like how .
Speaker 2Well , if they're learning about fractions , bake something together and have them measure out the ingredients Practical math Exactly . Or if they're studying nature , go for a walk and talk about what you see .
Speaker 1That makes it so much more engaging .
Speaker 2It does . When they can see how learning applies to their own lives , it becomes more meaningful .
Speaker 1It's not just something they have to do for school Right . What about homework ? Should we be involved in that or let them handle it on their own ?
Speaker 2Reviewing it together can be really helpful .
Speaker 1Oh , okay .
Speaker 2It's not about doing it for them , but about discussing what they learned , asking questions and helping them catch any mistakes . It reinforces what they learned in class and shows them that you care about their education .
Speaker 1Like a team effort .
Speaker 2Exactly .
Speaker 1Now , learning isn't always easy . There are going to be challenges and bumps along the way .
Speaker 2And that's okay . Everyone makes mistakes . Yeah , it's part of the learning process .
Speaker 1But sometimes those mistakes can feel like setbacks .
Speaker 2True . That's why it's so important to foster a growth mindset .
Speaker 1A growth mindset .
Speaker 2It's the belief that we can always learn and improve . So , instead of focusing on the grade , praise their effort , their persistence , their progress . Let them know that mistakes are opportunities to learn and grow . This is something that's consistently highlighted in educational psychology research . A growth mindset is crucial for academic success .
Speaker 1So it's about seeing challenges as chances to learn , not as failures .
Speaker 2Exactly , and building on that idea of preparing them for challenges ,
Fostering a Growth Mindset
Speaker 2we can also start introducing them to basic test-taking skills early on .
Speaker 1Oh , like how to approach tests without getting overwhelmed .
Speaker 2Right , and we can do it in fun ways without making it feel like a big deal . Playing memory games , for instance , is great for building memory skills . You could also do practice quizzes . Keep it light and playful and teach them relaxation techniques like deep breathing to help manage any test anxiety .
Speaker 1So , to wrap up , we've covered a lot today Creating a good study environment , the power of reading , organizational skills , active learning being a good role model , managing time , asking for help , connecting learning to real life , reviewing homework , fostering a growth mindset and even early test-taking skills .
Speaker 2Wow , that's quite a list .
Speaker 1It is , and the message that comes through loud and clear is that developing these skills early on sets kids up for success in all areas of their lives . It's not just about school . It's about becoming a lifelong learner .
Speaker 2And all of this advice is not just pulled out of thin air . It comes from years of research and the expertise of people who have dedicated their lives to understanding how kids learn best .
Speaker 1So , as you're listening to this , think about which of these strategies you can start implementing today . Even one small change can make a huge difference over time . What's one thing you can do to support the learning journey of a young person in your life ? It might be easier than you think to get started .
Speaker 2And so rewarding .
Speaker 1Absolutely All right . So today we're going to like tackle something pretty fundamental , right thing uh pretty fundamental . It's about research and how we can like equip our kids with , uh , the power to actually do good research .
Speaker 2Absolutely .
Speaker 1Right , like it seems basic , but you think about , like , how much information is like constantly coming at all of us these days ? Right , it's not enough to just like find stuff online . You have to be able to really understand it and evaluate it .
Speaker 2Use it critically .
Speaker 1Use it critically yeah .
Speaker 2Absolutely .
Speaker 1And it's not even just about school , it's like a life skill , I feel like .
Speaker 2It really is . Yeah , this is about setting them up to be like lifelong
Research Skills for Young Learners
Speaker 2learners and to be able to navigate the world with confidence .
Speaker 1Yeah , exactly , Confident independent thinkers .
Speaker 2Yeah so .
Speaker 1Like confident independent thinkers , yeah , so that's what we're going to dive into today and we have like a bunch of awesome resources we do so . We're looking at John Chavez's article Red Shirting Education , which makes a really strong case for research as like a foundation for success .
Speaker 2It really does . And then we're also pulling in some stuff from ALA , common Sense Media , oh yeah , easty and Eddie A . These are great organizations , yeah , so lots of good stuff there . And we'll touch on some points from educational psychology journals , too Great , but yeah . So , like , the big mission for this deep dive is to give you guys some really solid strategies you can actually use with your kids .
Speaker 1Absolutely . So you can kind of see why these skills matter so much and how to like nurture them without feeling like you need to go get a PhD or something Exactly , and it doesn't have to be overwhelming . No , not at all , we can break it down into manageable steps .
Speaker 2Yeah , for sure , okay . So where do we even begin ? Where is the starting point for , like , unlocking this potential ?
Speaker 1Right , I think the very first step and maybe the most important is nurturing that natural curiosity that all kids have . Oh yeah Right , they're constantly asking why .
Speaker 2Oh yeah .
Speaker 1And it can be exhausting sometimes .
Speaker 2Why Tell me about it ?
Speaker 1But that's the engine Right that drives all research . It's that inquisitiveness , yeah .
Speaker 2So if we can keep that spark alive , we've got a strong foundation .
Speaker 1That totally makes sense but , like I said , sometimes it's so much like what are some actual ways that we can like nurture it instead of just like putting out fires all the time , exactly .
Speaker 2Well , one surprisingly simple but powerful technique is asking open-ended questions .
Speaker 1Oh , okay .
Speaker 2So , instead of like always giving them the answer immediately .
Speaker 1Right right .
Speaker 2You know , turn it back around and say like , well , that's a great question . What makes you think that ?
Speaker 1Oh , I see .
Speaker 2Or what are some other possibilities .
Speaker 1Oh , that's good .
Speaker 2And research shows that when kids are actually involved in like seeking the answers , it strengthens their problem solving skills , makes sense and it also increases their intrinsic motivation to learn .
Speaker 1Oh wow , so it like makes them want to learn more .
Speaker 2Yeah , that feeling of discovery is super powerful , that's huge .
Speaker 1Yeah . Instead of like forcing it on them , it's like they come to it on their own . Exactly , I love that . So it's like a joint exploration instead of Me just like .
Speaker 2A one-way information dump , yeah exactly .
Speaker 1The article also talks about the importance of supporting their interests .
Speaker 2Yeah , so how does that play into building research skills ? Well , when a child has a passion for something , yeah . You know , whether it's bugs or space or whatever . That's your golden opportunity . Okay , Chavez suggests you give them resources that feed that interest directly .
Speaker 1So , like if they're obsessed with bug , I get them a book about bugs .
Speaker 2Exactly Age-appropriate books , documentaries , websites , that kind of thing .
Speaker 1Got it .
Speaker 2And that makes it feel less like homework and more like an adventure .
Speaker 1Oh yeah .
Speaker 2So research becomes this joyful exploration .
Speaker 1I love that .
Speaker 2Of something they already care about .
Speaker 1Yeah , it's not a chore , it's like .
Speaker 2Exactly .
Speaker 1Oh , this is awesome .
Speaker 2Exactly .
Speaker 1Okay , so we've got the curiosity going .
Speaker 2Yes .
Speaker 1How do we give them , like , the actual skills to find what they're looking for ?
Speaker 2Okay , so now we're building their information gathering toolkit . Okay , one of the first things is books and libraries . You know , going to the library can be so enriching .
Speaker 1It's so fun .
Speaker 2Show them how the books are organized . You know making a treasure hunt to find the book on a specific topic .
Speaker 1I love that .
Speaker 2And don't forget about teaching them how to use the index or the table of contents . Those are really valuable , even in the digital age .
Speaker 1Totally , I still use those .
Speaker 2Me too All right .
Speaker 1So then there's the whole online world .
Speaker 2Yes .
Speaker 1Which is kind of unavoidable these days , right .
Speaker 2What's about teaching them to be responsible digital citizens ?
Speaker 1from the beginning .
Speaker 2Yeah , so Chavez mentions things like Kittle .
Speaker 1Okay .
Speaker 2Which is a kid-friendly search engine .
Speaker 1Oh cool .
Speaker 2It filters out inappropriate content . That's great . And then there are educational websites like NAFLA , geographic Kids .
Speaker 1Okay , cool .
Speaker 2Those are good starting points .
Speaker 1Yeah , those are good .
Speaker 2You also want to have conversations about online safety .
Speaker 1Oh right .
Speaker 2And what kind of information they might find .
Speaker 1Yeah , that's a good point .
Speaker 2It's important .
Speaker 1Okay . So then , once they're finding all this information , how do we teach them to keep track of it ?
Speaker 2Well , you can introduce note-taking and outlining early on .
Speaker 1Okay .
Speaker 2And for little kids this might just look like drawing pictures or using sticky notes .
Speaker 1Oh , cute , like visual stuff .
Speaker 2Exactly , and then , as they get older , you can introduce more formal outlining . Okay , the goal is to help them organize their thoughts .
Speaker 1Yeah .
Speaker 2And see the structure of information that makes sense , which helps them understand and remember it better .
Speaker 1Cool , okay . So we've talked about them doing research , but I feel like kids learn so much from watching us .
Speaker 2They do .
Speaker 1So how can we use that to our advantage ?
Speaker 2This is where modeling comes in .
Speaker 1Okay .
Speaker 2So researching aloud or thinking aloud , okay . So , researching aloud or thinking aloud . Okay , so let's say you're planning a family vacation . Get your kid involved .
Speaker 1Okay .
Speaker 2Look up the weather together .
Speaker 1Okay .
Speaker 2Fun activities .
Speaker 1Yeah .
Speaker 2A little bit about the history .
Speaker 1Oh , I love that .
Speaker 2And , as you're doing it , talk about what you're doing , so you might say , okay , I need to find out what time the museum opens .
Speaker 1Yeah .
Speaker 2Let me try searching for opening hours of , and then the museum name .
Speaker 1I see .
Speaker 2That shows them the steps from question to keywords to evaluating the results .
Speaker 1It's like you're showing them how your brain works .
Speaker 2Exactly .
Speaker 1I love that . Okay , so we focused on finding information .
Speaker 2Yes .
Speaker 1But what about the types of information they're getting ? Yes , how can we broaden their horizons a little ?
Speaker 2Reading across different genres is super important , especially nonfiction , okay , so books and articles about science , history , nature , current events all of that Okay . That helps them build up a foundation of knowledge , but it's also good to encourage them to explore information in different formats .
Speaker 1Oh right , Not just books .
Speaker 2Not just books , documentaries , podcasts , interviews with experts .
Speaker 1Yeah , yeah , yeah .
Speaker 2You know , maybe even someone in your family .
Speaker 1Right .
Speaker 2That personal connection can be really impactful .
Speaker 1Totally Okay , but then there's so much information out there , right ?
Speaker 2Totally .
Speaker 1Okay , but then there's so much information out there , right ? How do we teach them to be careful about what they're reading and watching ?
Speaker 2Right , that's where evaluation comes in .
Speaker 1Okay .
Speaker 2A key skill is distinguishing fact from opinion .
Speaker 1Oh yeah .
Speaker 2You can ask questions like can we prove this or does this sound like someone's belief ?
Speaker 1Oh , that's good . It helps them think critically Okay , and how do we help them identify good sources , especially online ?
Speaker 2Well for younger kids . Start with trusted places like PBS Kids or Smithsonian Kids . They have great reputations .
Speaker 1Yeah .
Speaker 2As kids get older , you can introduce the idea of source credibility .
Speaker 1Oh cool .
Speaker 2So , looking at who created the information , what their purpose might be , are they trying to inform or persuade ?
Speaker 1and is the information backed up by evidence . Okay that their purpose might be . Are they trying to inform or persuade Mm-hmm ? And is the information backed up by ?
Speaker 2evidence . Okay , that makes sense . Common Sense Media has some really helpful resources for teaching this .
Speaker 1Okay , awesome .
Speaker 2And the ALA has frameworks for information ethics and online behavior too .
Speaker 1Oh cool . So they're not just like blindly believing everything they see online .
Speaker 2Exactly .
Speaker 1Okay , good , so research doesn't always have to be books and screens , right ?
Speaker 2No , definitely not .
Speaker 1How can we make it more hands-on ?
Speaker 2There's so many ways . Okay , simple science , experiments at home are great . Okay , so they can make a prediction . Do the experiment , observe what happens and then draw conclusions .
Speaker 1Oh , I love that .
Speaker 2It's research in action . Yeah like they're actually little scientists .
Speaker 1Exactly , I love it .
Speaker 2And you can also involve them in family projects that require research .
Speaker 1Oh , okay .
Speaker 2So maybe finding a new recipe to try .
Speaker 1Okay .
Speaker 2Or researching a historical event before you visit a site , oh yeah . Or figuring out the best plants to grow in your garden .
Speaker 1I love that .
Speaker 2The NEA really promotes this kind of project-based learning .
Speaker 1Okay , cool .
Speaker 2It makes research fun and purposeful yeah , totally okay .
Speaker 1So they've done all this research . Yes , now how do we help them , like , make sense of it all ?
Speaker 2summarizing is key .
Speaker 1Okay , chavez says to practice paraphrasing so like explaining it in their own words exactly , okay that helps them process the information on a deeper level . Yeah , because if they can explain it to someone else , then they really get it .
Speaker 2Exactly .
Speaker 1Cool .
Speaker 2You can also use visual aids like graphic organizers .
Speaker 1Okay .
Speaker 2Things like Venn diagrams , flow charts , mind maps .
Speaker 1Those are good .
Speaker 2Yeah , those can help them see the relationships between different pieces of information and organize their thoughts .
Speaker 1That makes sense , okay , but we can't forget about technology . Right so how do we help them use it in a good way for research ?
Speaker 2Introduce digital tools gradually and at the right age .
Speaker 1Okay .
Speaker 2So for older kids , maybe using Google Docs for notes or exploring educational apps . Okay , there are also online databases made for kids , like Kids Infobits , britannica Kids Scholastic oh cool , those provide good , reliable information .
Speaker 1Yeah .
Speaker 2And the ALA has some great resources for digital literacy too .
Speaker 1Okay , so it's all about using technology to help them , not distract them Exactly Got it . Okay , so what are some ways we can kind of like solidify what they have learned ?
Speaker 2Well , documentation and sharing are important . Okay , chavez suggests a research journal .
Speaker 1Like a notebook .
Speaker 2Yeah or Okay . Chavez suggests a research journal Like a notebook .
Speaker 1Yeah , or even a digital document Okay . Where they can keep track of their findings , thoughts , questions . It's like their own little database , exactly , that's awesome .
Speaker 2And then giving them opportunities to share their research is great too , okay . So maybe they present it to the family or make a short video oh fun . Or just talk about it with a friend . Yeah , that about it with a friend . Yeah , that makes the whole process more meaningful , totally . Okay so last question what's the most important thing for us as parents to do ? Be patient and praise their effort Right , not just the outcome . Yeah , celebrate their curiosity .
Speaker 1Yeah .
Speaker 2Acknowledge their attempts , even when they struggle .
Speaker 1It's the process , not the product .
Speaker 2Exactly , and encourage a growth mindset . Oh , the idea that research is ongoing . Right , it's the process , not the product . Exactly , and encourage a growth mindset . Oh , the idea that research is ongoing .
Speaker 1Right .
Speaker 2It's okay to not find the right answer right away . The research actually shows that these early skills are linked to better critical thinking and problem solving .
Speaker 1Wow .
Speaker 2And the ISC standards have good strategies for digital literacy too .
Speaker 1Okay .
Speaker 2Awesome , so there's a lot of support out there .
Speaker 1That's great to know . Okay , so to wrap up for everyone listening , remember , yes , nurture that curiosity .
Speaker 2Yes .
Speaker 1Teach them how to find information both in the real world and online .
Speaker 2Absolutely .
Speaker 1Be a good example by doing your own research out loud .
Speaker 2Yes .
Speaker 1Encourage them to read all kinds of stuff and learn to evaluate what they find . Give them hands-on research projects .
Speaker 2Yeah .
Speaker 1Help them summarize and make sense of information . Important Use technology in a good way , yes , encourage them to document and share what they learn . Definitely and most importantly , be patient and praise their hard work .
Speaker 2Couldn't agree more .
Speaker 1Oh , and don't forget to check out those resources from Common Sense Media and the NEA . So helpful , yeah . So our final thought for today .
Speaker 2Yes .
Speaker 1Think about the big picture . How will being a good researcher help your child in life ? Like how will it affect their ability to learn , solve problems and understand the world ?
Speaker 2Such an important question .
Speaker 1What's one little thing you can do today to help your kid become a better researcher ?
Speaker 2That's a great challenge .
Speaker 1Maybe ask an open-ended question or plan a trip to the library .
Speaker 2I love it .
Speaker 1Thanks so much for joining us today on this deep dive .
Speaker 2It's been a pleasure .
Speaker 1We'll see you next time .
Speaker 2See you then .
Speaker 1All right . So you guys sent us a ton of stuff on how to like up those test scores for your kiddos . Right , we've got John Chavez dropping knowledge and redshirting education , all about making sure kids are ready for college and careers . And then , like a whole bunch of other voices chiming in the college board ACT Inc , the American Psychological Association , edutopia , understoodorg Dash , you get a picture . A lot to unpack .
Speaker 2Yeah , a lot of heavy hitters in the education world for sure .
Speaker 1Right . So what we really want to do is go through all this stuff and give you the best , most practical tips to help your kids not just ace those tests but actually feel good about school , without making
Test-Taking Skills and Anxiety Management
Speaker 1them feel stressed out .
Speaker 2Yeah , no one wants a stressed out kid .
Speaker 1Exactly . So where should we , where should we even start with all this ?
Speaker 2I think it makes sense to begin with like the core stuff , right , the foundation . A lot of these experts are really stressing how crucial those basic academic skills are .
Speaker 1Yeah , totally . I mean Chavez and like everyone else basically says reading , math , writing , those are non-negotiable right . It's not just about passing a test , it's about setting them up for success in everything they learn later on .
Speaker 2Absolutely , and they actually give some pretty cool ideas for strengthening these skills , like with reading . Instead of just reading to your child , you can stop every now and then and ask okay , what's happened so far , just to get them thinking and remembering the story , or like what do you think might happen next ? You know , based on what they already know .
Speaker 1I love that it makes reading so much more interactive , right , it's not just passively taking in words , it's really engaging with them . And I love the suggestion about playing math games . It just sounds so much more fun than endless worksheets , right , even writing letters , which seems kind of basic , but it's building those writing chops .
Speaker 2For sure , and you know reading regularly I can't emphasize this enough . Chavez really points out how important that is for building vocabulary and comprehension and critical thinking skills . It's like a full brain workout .
Speaker 1Totally . And when it comes to math , you know , getting those basic facts down early on flashcards , fun games , even counting change when you're out shopping it makes those numbers real , you know , helps kids understand them on a deeper level .
Speaker 2Definitely . And once they've got those fundamentals down , a lot of the experts say the next step is helping kids get used to the whole idea of testing itself .
Speaker 1Okay , so we're moving from building the foundation to like getting them in the game . Right , how do we do that at home without making it feel like a constant pop quiz ?
Speaker 2The key is to practice , but keep it low . Key right Chavez suggests using little quizzes based on what they're already learning in school . It kind of normalizes the format and the whole test taking experience .
Speaker 1That makes a lot of sense . So it's not like this big scary thing when they actually have a test , you know if they're already used to doing these little quizzes along the way . And I also like the idea of setting time limits for certain tasks , like even homework . It's not about rushing them , but just helping them develop an awareness of time , you know .
Speaker 2Exactly , and the American Psychological Association . They actually they really highlight how important time management is during tests . So if kids get used to working within a certain timeframe , it can actually help them feel less anxious when they're taking the real test .
Speaker 1Yeah , that makes sense . And introducing different types of questions like multiple choice , true or false , short answer , and giving them strategies for each type , it gives them some tools in their belt . Right , like with multiple choice , you can talk about eliminating the answers that they know are wrong . First , Right , it's not just about knowing the material . It's about knowing how to play the game Right . The test taking game .
Speaker 2Yeah , and that actually leads right into developing those broader test taking skills , like . One thing that's super important is reading the instructions carefully .
Speaker 1Oh , for sure .
Speaker 2Chavez makes this great comparison to like following instructions for a craft project or a recipe right . It's all about paying attention to detail from the very beginning .
Speaker 1That is such a good analogy . It's like if you skip a step in the recipe , your cookies aren't going to turn out right . Same thing with the test and the advice to skip difficult questions . At first that might seem counterintuitive , but it's actually pretty smart .
Speaker 2It helps them manage their time and not get stuck on one problem . Yeah , for sure . And then they can come back to those harder questions later with a fresh perspective and whatever time they have left . Oh , and getting in the habit of checking their work for like silly mistakes before turning it in , that can save them some points too .
Speaker 1Totally those careless mistakes . They're the worst , right ? Okay ? So let's talk about test anxiety for a sec , Because even if a kid is super prepared , those nerves can really mess things up . What did the experts say about that ?
Speaker 2Well , it's all about building a positive mindset . Right Framing the test is a chance to show off what they've learned , not just like a judgment or an evaluation taking the pressure off .
Speaker 1Yeah , it's like changing the story around tests right . So it's not about being afraid to fail , it's about showing what you know . And those relaxation techniques , the breathing exercises and visualization that Edutopia and Understoodorg talked about those are super helpful too .
Speaker 2Oh , yeah , for sure . And we can't forget about the basics right Getting enough sleep , eating healthy food , having time to play and be active . It all makes a difference in how clearly they can think during a test .
Speaker 1It's easy to forget that stuff when you're focused on academics , but it's so important . Okay , so we've talked about mindset and things they can do during the test itself , but what about the bigger picture , like the studying and getting organized part ?
Speaker 2Right . Well , that's where good study habits and organization come in . Chavez really emphasizes creating a study schedule . It encourages kids to review the material regularly , which is way better than cramming the night before Right A little bit .
Speaker 1Each day is so much less stressful .
Speaker 2Totally and using things like study guides and flashcards , breaking the information down into smaller chunks and actively recalling it . That's super effective too . Makes the material seem less overwhelming .
Speaker 1It's about making it bite-sized right .
Speaker 2Exactly and setting up a dedicated study space , you know , somewhere quiet and free of distractions . It signals to the kid and everyone else in the house that it's focus time .
Speaker 1It creates that boundary right .
Speaker 2Mentally and physically .
Speaker 1So now I want to touch on this whole growth mindset thing . How does that tie into better test taking ?
Speaker 2So a growth mindset is basically believing that you know you can always learn and improve . Your abilities aren't set in stone . So when you celebrate a kid's effort and the fact that they're learning , not just the grade on the test , it helps them bounce back from setbacks right . If they don't do well , it's not a sign that they're not smart . It's just an opportunity to learn and grow .
Speaker 1That's such a powerful shift in perspective . It's about focusing on the journey , not just the destination , and talking about what went well and what could be improved after a test . It turns every test into a learning experience , regardless of the score .
Speaker 2Right and connecting what they're learning to real-life stuff , that can make a huge difference too . Puzzles , logic games , strategy games all those problem solving activities are great for building critical thinking skills , which are important for tests and just life in general .
Speaker 1Yeah , it's like sneaking in learning through fun right and even using math in everyday situations , Like if you're cooking and you need to double a recipe , or if you're planning a family trip and figuring out the budget . It makes math feel more real and less abstract .
Speaker 2Definitely they can see how it's actually useful . And you know , one of the biggest things is how parents approach learning and challenges themselves . Kids are always watching right . So if they see you tackling a problem with a positive , organized attitude , even if it's just a Sudoku puzzle , it can really rub off on them .
Speaker 1Kids are like little sponges , and if you're genuinely excited about learning , that enthusiasm is contagious , right .
Speaker 2Totally and if we look back at all the experts you mentioned , there's a lot of agreement on these points . The College Board and ACT Inc . They both talk about how important it is for students to be familiar with the format of the tests . The American Psychological Association they emphasize time management skills . Edutopia and understoodorg have great strategies for dealing with test anxiety and Parenting Science . And the National Association of
Building Lifelong Learning Habits
Speaker 2School Psychologists they both highlight the importance of parental support and giving kids chances to practice . It's all connected .
Speaker 1Yeah , it's a pretty consistent message coming from all of these different experts . So , to recap , it sounds like the key takeaways are building that solid foundation in reading , math and writing , giving kids low-pressure ways to practice test-taking skills , teaching them strategies for different question types and helping them deal with test anxiety and , of course , good study habits , organization and a growth mindset . And all of this is supported by , you know , parents being encouraging and setting a good example .
Speaker 2Exactly . It's not about turning your kid into a test-taking machine . It's about giving them the skills and the confidence to succeed in school and in life .
Speaker 1So for all of you listening out there , think about which of these strategies really resonates with you and your child . You know every kid is different . Maybe start by trying out one or two things and see how it goes . What if you focused more on the process of learning and problem solving instead of just the test scores themselves ? How might that change the way you support your child's education ? Something to think about , right ? Thanks for joining us for this deep dive .